Sumimasen...

[Sephiroth 3D]

VValentine: Actually, Asexual means you can reproduce by yourself. It doesn't mean you don't have an interest in sex.
Joey: Why would Qhimm want a girl just like her? I think he would want one who could appreciate him for being himself.

Joey2: Dreams come True - Is the version you're thinking of by SES? Cause that's the version I have, and I don't think of it as a sad song. (Probably cause I can't understand about 95% of the song, because I can't understand Japanese.)

Qhimm: Living a lie, huh? Hmm... That's something. How exactly is your life a lie? Is everything a lie, or is only a certain part a lie?

The main problem with most women (I apologize in advance if I offend anyone) is that most of them want one of 3 things: 1) Money, 2) A handsome guy they can brag about, or 3) Someone who can appreciate them, and love them.

Sadly, 1 and 2 are in an overwhelming abundance. #3 is the most rare, and the most satisfiying type of woman.

I've spent a long time watching other relationships rise and fall, and to my dissapointment, most women want a hot guy before they will even give them a chance at a date. After that, they want to pick your brain, and see if you truely love them. I've yet to witness a releationship that makes it past that mark, for the 2nd half can take anywhere from a few days to over a year to develop.

I'm not sure if this is helping. In fact, I'm sure that this is making it worse. I think I'll just shut up now, and not mention anything else.

I do hope you can find a way out of this funk and be able to feel inspired by life again. Best of luck.

Sephiroth 3D

"One who seeks knowledge from another person, doesn't learn half as much as the one who seeks knowledge for himself." - Vincent Valentine, The Sephiroth Chronicals, Book 1: Resurrection

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[Edea]

Sephiroth I'm glad you said "most" women because not all are like that and I would say that Qhimm will find that special one who will treat him like he deserves to be treated...it just takes time. Although I do agree that the biggest percentage of women are like that. Believe me...I know how women think!  :wink:

 

[Ant]

Sorry to hear that Qhimm:

Oh well, I'm sure this board would be better off without detailed briefings on my emotinal collapses

Maybe if you actually did the opposite and did tell the board someone may be able to help ya.

 

[eerrrr]

On 2001-10-11 02:35, Joey wrote:
Geez. :sad: you sound down, Qhimm. That girlfriend of yours is a whore for not sticking with you. Don't lie, Qhimm, I know that you have broke up with your girlfriend.

Joey, don't assume Qhimm's just broken up with his girlfriend. That may be right, but it can hurt just as much to be in love with a girl who has no feelings for you whatsoever. And Qhimm may not think she's a whore and stuff cos of whatever happened.
I have no luck at all when it comes to love, I guess I'm not the average girl's material, maybe I'll have to find a not-so-average girl then... :???:

 

[vvalentine]

There was a woman (and still is, even after two years) that I really love.  We met at work, and we totally connected.  I like the way she is, her smile, and she is very cute.  I really fell in love with her, I told her that I like her but I didn't tell her that I loved her.  
Anyways, she seemed to like me or so I thought.  I was waiting for the right moment to ask her out on a date, but then I got this stie in my eye (big bubble in the eyelid) and I couldn't ask her out like that (I wasn't feeling too confident with that stie).  Weeks later there was this guy who always wanted to go out with her, and finally convinced her to go out with him.  The guy was ugly as sh*t, but they she went out with him and eventually they became boyfriend and girlfriend.  
I was totally depressed, couldn't eat, wanted to sleep all day and not go to work, and I couldn't face her.  I stopped talking to her for 3 months.  I had to sort out my feelings, and I realized that I was not responsible for her decisions and she can do whatever she wanted.  It wasn't my time to love, because if I'm going to love someone it's going to be the woman I am going to marry.
She is the woman I love, and she is the woman I want to marry (not yet though).  I had told her that and that she deserves a better man (better than me and the guy who she went out with).  I don't live in the area where she lives, but I have heard that she is a player.  I don't care what she does, all I know is that I love her by the way she is.  People grow out of things like that(like being a player), for example, I used to be very irresponsible.  
The point is that she didn't really hurt me, but made me reallize that I wasn't a better man than the guy she went out with.  And it helps me to be motivated, to finish College, and to become a better man.

-vvalentine

 

[StrayWings]

Sumimasen - Qhimm

Don't be sorry Qhimm~

Well, I am not a University student but I do know that it is hard up there.. don't bog yourself down with the Board Qhimm, do it for fun not just because it's your 'job'. You have a life out there, live it!

chowderhead said, "I'll keep coming to it-because you laid the foundation of this forum in content, not eye candy." I like your site because it's full of nice people, I don't really get to meet these kind of people in where I live...Reading all the posts that came in less than 2 days, everyone really cares about you...because everyone has the same problems..you are not alone~

Well, don't let your problems take over you Qhimm..don't dwell in them..pour them out! ..but sometimes it just won't go away..that's why you must be strong! All these posts are meant to give you that energy to rise back up again.. even a soaring eagle has to land once in awhile..

I have tasted failure...it becomes bitter every time..my studies..my life.. My big exams are coming.. But every time I taste that bitterness, I try my best not to taste it again..

Like what vvalentine said, it is all part of learning.. we humans are already meant to suffer, one way or the other..but we can't stay in that pit hole forever..life is too short for that..

If your current relationship is meant to be, it would heal in time... the best items in life are hardest to get.. but the statisfaction is overwhelming.. just any any FF games..


..I am sure that you'll get through this.